Ender Pedistals will randomly generate in Jungle Biomes in a newly created world with this mod installed. If you come across one, it can be broken with your hand, or a tool, which will result in it dropping usually 1 Ender Pearl, and more rarely up to 4 Ender Pearls in the latest version. If the plant doesn't break, its not yet fully grown, so give it a little longer to mature, however, it may break and return you the seed for you to start again.
After obtaining some Ender Peaarls, it is possible to create a growing area anywhere you like and craft Ender Seeds to make a garden of Ender Pedistals. To plant an Ender Seed, you MUST make your growing area out of Soul Sand. Ender Seeds will only grow, and can only be planted on Soul Sand. The Soul Sand will not need to be hoe'd.
Ender Pedistals are slow growing, so be a little patient. If you are not a patient person, you can hurry the growing process with Bonemeal.
Here's how to craft an Ender Seed